This is one of the more interesting charts (see below) I've recently had the pleasure to read. Within the span of 02 days, the client has SIX of her ex's reach out to her without her doing anything different. In fact, she had stopped thinking about them completely and carried on with her life. And the strange thing is, in her words, when this was happening, she was more receptive to them more than she normally would be.
The clue, no doubt, is in that 5th house of hers (house of romance, creative pursuits etc.) Below is an image of her chart and our response.
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Q: So many men from my past have been reaching out and I’ve been oddly receptive to them. What is going on?
A: Interesting question and chart! You know why that happened to you? Two things:
(1) About 2 days ago, a combination of the most emotionally gratifying planets Venus, the Moon and Lilith was gracing over the cusp of your 5H of romance, converging with your lord of the 7H Leo Mars. There’s an intense blend of energies relating to love, passion, intuition, and the darker, more mysterious facets of relationships and self-expression.
And (2) Lord of your 5H, the sun, which is currently in the harmonizing sign of Libra, could be also be a contributive factor to why you’re receptive to those interactions.
Let’s unpack some of the above aspects:
(1) Venus, Moon, Lilith conjuncts on the cusp of the 5H of romance:
Let’s unpack some of the above aspects:
(1) Venus, Moon, Lilith conjuncts on the cusp of the 5H of romance:
- Venus, which is also your natal chart ruler, gracing your 5th house cusp suggests a phase where romance, attraction, and feelings become more a more focal point in your life. You might find yourself attracted to someone or wanting to deepen an existing connection. This is a time when love can feel somewhat fated, joyful, and particularly meaningful for you.
- Beyond romance, the 5th house also relates to personal expression and creativity. Venus here can enhance your ability to express yourself artistically, there’s also a playful quality to your expression and creative endeavors.
- Transit Lilith on 5th House Cusp gives you a strangely magnetic allure, making you appear mysterious and captivating to others. But Lilith can also bring up suppressed desires or aspects of your identity which you or society may deem forbidden. With Lilith’s energy in the mix, romantic encounters are power-charged with intensity, themes of forbidden desire, the vibe of something you shouldn’t be doing 😅
- • Transit Moon on 5th House Cusp further heightens your emotion. Romantic feelings can be felt deeply, and there might be an intuitive pull towards someone, almost like a deep-seated emotional craving or need. The Moon’s influence can also bring fluctuations in feelings. One moment you might feel incredibly connected, and the next, you could be questioning the authenticity of those emotions.
(2) This transiting conjunction interacting with your natal Leo Mars, which rules your 7H of relationship, adds further nuances to your experience:
- Mars in Leo is confident, assertive, and passionate. With the transit touching this placement, the energies of past attractions can be rekindled with Mars acting as a flame, reigniting passions or unresolved feelings.
- Pursuits are active as Mars, especially in Leo, is not one to sit back. The men from your past reaching out might be influenced by this Martian urge to pursue or to clear unresolved tensions.
- Given that Mars lords over your 7th house, the realm of partnerships and significant relationships, this transit might not just be about fleeting attractions but could bring back significant relationships or insights that you miss from the past. The resurgence of past connections might also give you a chance to reevaluate these relationships. Were there unsaid words? Unfinished business? Or perhaps lessons that you didn’t realize at the time?
As previously mentioned, with Venus, Lilith, and the Moon involved, the tide of emotions can be overflowing . Mars adds another layer of assertiveness and potential impulsivity to this mix. There could be a temptation to dive headfirst into these reconnections without much thought. The magnetic allure discussed earlier is even stronger now with Mars in the picture. Mars in Leo has its own charisma, and combined with the energies of Lilith and Venus, it’s a potent mix, it kinda feels like you’re suddenly swept up in these strangely alluring romantic pursuits.
While the allure of past relationships can be intoxicating, especially with the passionate charge of Mars, it’s essential to pause and reflect. Is there a pattern or a lesson to be learned? Is there a genuine potential for a renewed, healthy connection, or is it a mere “walk down memory lane” so to speak, powered the intense transits?Mars in Leo can be bold, but it’s usually ego, self-validation motivated.
It’s also worth noting that currently transit Sun is in Libra, a sign of love & harmony that bring your mode of being into this state of friendliest, eager to establish bonds & connect with others. The sun is also lord of your 5H by the way, which could explain why you’re more open & receptive to these “reaching out” than your usual Virgo’s shy & cautious stance.